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manys they are aware that these friends
are soared and terrified to them why because
might backed because trashing
will follow wor beon et and the is many
people say why are
friends friends and what right andong and
these per many you go one all of them
most of them but with that being said
why is concern to you men one thing and
please pay att
friends have influence upon your
success or failure in this life in the
grave and after life one more time one more
time friends have an influence on
your success or failure way
number one some the influence
friends good second component
mens to prove to how great influence a
good friend may have upon you number
three some tell
how
number cs one number roll, pray on it
and
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Name, may
God bless him and grant him
peace,
and
ex perfume seller and
ex and sake of our current iss current
times to
ex s landfill or dump s so the prophet
tells us three things the good companion
the seller of the perfume may do to you
and influence you with number one he may
sell you the perfume or give you a
tester a small sample or the least that
will happen is that you will smell a
good smell out of the place and the area
around
that now the prophet talks the bad the one that
works in a landfill or dump not evil say people ex
two things will
happen either they will ruin your
clothing make dirty or the le the le
that will happ is what is that you have
a bad smell you experience a bad smell
from the
area ising us a con and making that you
bas life upon it that friends have
influence upon you whether you like or
not they will influence you they will influence you they will influence you
no
matter
beu even from aec you second smoke for
those that smoke and those that sit beside them
that even have an influence
upon them so don't say i won't be
influenced by having bad friends that
smoke shisha arila as long as i'm not
smoking it you're absolutely wrong
there's such thing as second hand smoke
according to the us department of health
and human services they say that those
non smokers exposed to second smoke at
home work increas heart dise risk by 25
to 30% you see the influence and don't
also say after hearing this won benefit
by a good friend no according to
toal when you sit in a gathering of
knowledge gathering where people glor and
pure andan
gathering the end of we ask make say among
and all those are watching
God guide you, oh angels, that I have forgiven
them, oh God one of them is
God Almighty and to
Him the people have been forgiven and He does not suffer misery because of their neglect
this why just by
someone who glorifying because gathering mening
see the level of influence the prophet is telling you you be influenced whether you like it or not and i
hope
the least you can get out of this is that
it flows in your blood and in your mind
that whenever you go out with someone you
hang out with someone you
talk to someone online over the one
sitting by someone you have to know by
default i'll be influenced either in a
good way or a bad way and whether it was
too much number
two Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace,
are other the prop are you gu will take
and
take regard of age he say pay att to
whom you be friend other
words 2013 watch out you follow twitter
just like that outage you like watch
out yoube channel subscribe to may God bless him and grant him peace teach friend might have influence upon ex that would things have and that
also means one the wor
things one wor cri can ever do
with the nothing but devil
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said the of our liv [
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this him said what do say stop saying in a hope he rose and did not
meet
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for
God is Greatest
urge make life this tells even aic
because heart is att them a through through somee some face
because once saw them a
because
given say yes res
withs thinking about it no not really
of course not i ask allah the answer is
no if h make a
change life time to unfollow uns
time put a time tell yourself
time i need urn and change my friends
and See who I beware say these the six Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, number of friends do not overlook them
the second advice is you shall not have bad friends
so it's not enough for you to love friends right back friends you can at the focus one and be isolated
myof Allah, peace be upon him
Allah, the cave Surah I seek refuge in the accursed In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most
Merciful And be patient with those who call upon their
Lord morning and evening seeking His
countenance, they seek His countenance. And let not your eyes pass beyond them, desiring
adornments of the worldly life,
Allah,
and do not overlook
them all do not overlook them do not overlook them Allah,
and do not obey one whose heart We have made heedless of Our remembrance and who
follows his desire and whose affair is ever [due to] the wisdom and knowable
face friends all sister think also follow from Sanhi the been ref he said it but it doesn't matter who said it the point is was non muslim he said an insincere evil friend is much more evil and much more harmful than a beast a wild beast why
because the wild
beast might wound you physically and
might wound you your body but the evil friend
and insincere friend will wound
your mind will corrupt your mind
remember that sister i refer to when her
husband was on the of someone's urging oh
this was to show you that you beu
those work scho whatever it mayu
now the besting someone with you
difficult be more difficult foray att in front of you
it not had you with
someone
some now open another
window even if a computer that might be
your friend now let's look at some
supporting facts number two out of five
in terms of segments supporting facts
showing you that a good friend
in the
grave in the many of know this the
killed
9
prop the prophet said that this man
when he killed 9 people he felt that he
wanted to change he felt that what he did
was not good so he goes to a worshiper
underline the word what worshiper
he tells them i killed 99
people ever forgive me will allah ever accept my my
repentance he said you killed
99 people you expect allah to forgive
you are you kidding me of course
not so that man you know it's hopeless
anyways so come here and he killed them
so he completed what 100 kills but
didn't feel good about so then he
went to a to a
said ever me ever my he said who in the
world would dare to you
forg
he said are among people are you have friends have friends
but you have to go to
people the other are that's and that
man the
and and was was does not mention but i
'm pretty sure many people backing him
pry sure many said oh you think so
holy now you want ch you want to leave
us you leave your buddies all these
years we were together hanging out
together perhaps you goed they w
gossiping back biting that man but he
went on and he traveled he took stuff
and was traveling as many of you know
he died in the path he didn't reach the
righteous city with good friends in it
what happens something very uncommon
something very unusual the two angels of mercy hundred thousand said said he
take what test measure the distance
this man where he died and from the city
of bad friends and bad compy and measure
his distance where he died and the city
with good company and whatever he is
closer to then take him so he's closer
to the righteous city where does he go
to jann and vice versa so they meed and
who was he closer to the righteous
friends the righteous city pay attention
this rule golden rule you will never
forget which will confirm the statement i
mention the beginning your friends have
influence upon [
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is he has friends not att as had he
been having more friends to so your
friends
deter bitterness on the religion of Khalifa you
are so be we ask gr
all ask
courage from those upon us more
from person ex notting not you i
a man who married i have two
daughters i got a full time job i teach
on thursdays i come
here fr
trur
heed
year
announcement all you guys the best i
never even thought of registering
because it doesn't even make sense six
days a we two hours a day days a we two hours a day
i hardly already see my
family so even thinking to enroll
doesn't make much sense but a friend a
and group ofs and thean himself he came to me
he said you know what this is an
opportunity make you register i'm
no impossible the said you have to take it
you have reg one you
might
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You me
my cool right i should consult my wife
or shouldn't make decisions like that we
should go back to our consult them so i
went to my wife and i told you know
there days a we hours a day what do you
think said had you asked me this question
two days ag out told you don't take
it register but because yesterday cing andy
sweet
ande myes
allah ask to accept by the
influence then by the influence of my
friends the imam and the influence of my
wife friends on her that made her say
you know what go for memor the qur you
see the influence of friends don't be
little that we ask all to accept and we
ask all to all all of us to be able to
mem the Quran amin what about in the grave in
the
grave who here knows how
can good company benefit in the grave
how is that possible I urged the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace,
ex
bodys he said the
grave
all What is the religion of
what
God Almighty is, and spread for him from the
end a Paradise
and a home from jn and open for him
hern so the bree and the wind and beauty
And majesty and and all amaz from jn can
it andy it then all of a sudden allah
ord for the grave to extend as far as
your eye can see yes for the believers
won be as tight as can and all of a
sudden a in the
grave a who very very very beautiful smells abs
gous has an aming of cl on
them and they walk to that person and
they
say good for you this is the pr which
allah pred you have been fulfilled
enjoying the grave yes you enjoy the grave
as a believer may God make you
all among those who enjoy the grave amin,
among you are the
Loving
God,
God Almighty, and reciting the
Qur’an, God is good, so behold The deafening
blast will come on the Day when a man will flee from his brother. On the Day of
Resurrection, even
some of them will disgrace their friends. Allah will disgrace their friends
on the Day when they will be enemies to one another. There is none but He, except the
righteous. The Day of Resurrection, except the righteous. Glory be to Allah,
Allah, the Most High, and then think
individually
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friends
prayed said myle say there is no god but Allah say there is no god but Allah I will
argue for you with Allah when i
me allah i can arue for his sake i can arue
on said god allah for him i do heal for him
just say that statement and take
care of the rest what happened the
people on the other side
Abdullah
bin Abdul
Muttalib
God make sure you respect your parents
and the other bad friend tells you
you're old enough to make up your own
decisions what do mean respect your
parents the other will tell you sister
your pants are tight for your hij not right the
other one tells you why
we should change our fashion style because of
guys act like animals you wear whatever
you want to wear back and forth back and
forth then someone tells you know
what enjoy your wedding but make sure it
's not mixed with all that dancing
with both genders and so on the other
one says don't be extremist let the
family have fun what's wrong with
you we lower our accusing us being [Music] said die upon the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, urged that there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God, there is no god but God. Make friends
overing the right to own uncle where sers will be boiling be so own mindin he may protect us from it
you see how
evil a bad friend has caused them what
about more in this dun there's much more
how about i tell you a personal story how a
bad friend can corrupt a person
there is there are two brothers that i
used to pick up for freder they were
university students so the relationship
i had with was sal and i and so ask
god to accept from all of us so every
time he calls me i call him and so we
wake each other up so all of a sudden
the connection broke apart and we no
longer connect and summer time came and
some of them went back home then they came
back and they never called me again
and i live by a
bar and wes they have a party going on
and it was too loud that my own sister
has twins they are unable to sleep how l
the bar across is so loud i was so angry i
was was something was do was
went with my pamas took my car keys
forg myone my wall all home just to tell
people to beet but what i do withs of
people what i do so then i go to and have
many stories that happen there you
can watch another video the video called why is life
so hard you can watch it
there some are funny some are weird some
are scary and so on but the point of it
so as i walk there and i'm driving i see
people drunk and wom naked and so and
people yelling out loud so then as i saw
a car that looked very familiar to me
looks like a car of a muslim so then
actually he was reversing i blocked him i
lally blocked him then i came down
with h
beard with my and see the man driving musl
and behold was important to me the one
bes him and the one at the back the two
up people drinking anding weed whatever
they smell do gu
beside who used to go with me
prayers and sister you cann be
those can go the difficult for them some
believer and all the wayli side look
from friendship moment we had
eye contact you
know what he did he grabbed his act
hands and he was scratching his whole
face and he never wanted to even look at
me the other at the back was crying a
little baby the evil of a bad friend corrupted
those two people Glory be to
ser that
beit way
that is grave
grave
say
i don't know his
name will acc to name what will answer is
acs the ones answer i can tell the
answer to and he might get but the
grave
higher have mind so
that Granted the
let
heat come into the grave and that
grave the ribs will be interlocked
for how tiny the grave would be
then very filthy and ugly and stinky
persons Absher by the one who
makes you
things grave
are I am your evil work
cri Oh,
oh, Allah, the Most High, and then the
hump of
Hell Allah and those who
disbelieve will be driven
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all
sudden Aq
bin very what when A se because was was and was being he was touched it and then he actually accepted Islam in one that has some weakness in it some it
says actually accepted Islam when the propet invited him over for food actually he was invited
then said have some food
the prophet said no i will not
until you say la transformer Allah so sayah Muhammad
ras Allah he
best
said prop accept
heit the prop bl and becomes the most
evil of people then Aq go exs disgusting of of he
throw the prophet back
the propet wasing the
argument began when they say who
would do something evil to the prophet
Awwal
on
the stick kill a man that says the Lord of
Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most
Merciful And on the day the oppressor strikes upon
Yeh Aq b on his two f not one you might be angry you do this
right one finger two fingers
you might be insanely angry
go with one f will be so regretful that
he did not take the prophet as guidance
and took the evil friend as a friend to ext
that he put both in mouth you can
how bad mouth was and ugly like say I
wish I took the pa of the prophet was was was prop
hopefully us wish
of us sayar none
name so and so his own friend name day
the friends will be enem
he that person
moved me as when when theer was there i wasting in the act gathering i was hearing the recitation of the i
heard and he moved me as may not make ex sent when he does it for reas this resurrection.
of how evil a bad friend may be
to you number four was ac number was
conclusion number the
way to
all make up
mind whatever i'm now cator don't take
heart css friends and if you thanked me for the
gift of gi
because the
gift of
gi to us
Zaqna
uses uned and by us our
brother Aaron a
prophet ex of in my life witness we ask
from both of us i never used to hadri
there
and
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before glory be to God being said for
mon not in can i
ever repay that person any
money in my life like was priceless to me
and today i learn from him to pray at the
and from him i learn something even
of a great reward what was it is every time you have a car you want go to the pick up some people that don't have vehicles and that person continues to get reward and influenced by that person
was all liv
like can
myion al In the name of God the Most Gracious the Most Merciful I complain to
Pharaoh, he was a
polytheist. He
said, my Lord, expand for me my chest and ease for me my task and untie
the impediment from my tongue so that he may understand my speech
Allah is
greater and appoint for me a helper from the family of Aaron, a brother whom I will strengthen
Share it in Om and share it in
Om so that we may praise You often and remember You
often. Have fun, may
God bless you.
Give us some hints some points we can tell this is a good now one of the things personally do I get from two things that I even to use it
whenever someone tries to propose to my daughters even though they're still young but I'm mentally preparing myself number
one that person has to pray on
time a good friend has to pray on time number two that
person we ask the
parents about him they have
say abut am i ex ex gu my daughter and
i ask the parents how your with you they
say i'm like you guys make for then at that
point you see that this man is
causing hard time to the parents you let go
terance of respecting par pray als
says you are the mirror of
the
mever tells you know so sister hij and
this shows up a little b a true friend
of yours will not be to tell you know
sister out i can see make a
friend of yours ask today why acc
me
friend
you sign when you
actually are you cheting ex not supposed to
do that the mirror of the other
believer this is a true friend so don't be hurt
there another quote by a person
called oscar wild he something similar
to it but in some in a rough way he says true friends stab
you in the front true
friends stab in the front we
say true friends actually wake you up
but they don't stab you and hurt you you have to adv
in a very gentle
he
never un you to be down
way
as some
points all people like now other ev
people per
some
people worse person i'm coming so evil
to my parents and friends i'm dring out
of school what's going with so evil they are
destroying you these people you let go
on the indicate
them there are many other other
statements but this i want to
focus to tell you if you have someone like
that del unfollow subscribe Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, I will be well except the
mujahideen be for except those
are said are
that he said cat
know then the next day he says ya
you know what i did i went to this
webs i this video i music i did this i
did that and he shares whatever
God has His Lord covers him and he wakes up and wakes up and reveals what
God covered
him with. Life
people with them you should move a way
regardless of how trash talk you may
hear from them you go about you don't
worry about it preaching telling this and i
just not before this someone forg for
example a parents please pay att youngst i
know you already know this some people
brag about adult videos they watch last
night shared and i'm telling you
students that come to the they told me
person grabbed the one and showed me the
mov and the video
12 h aare and know
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people course we can check you know any
time how about this every thursday i'll
come to you and give it to you and how
about this you break a deal prom with
children you ask to say they will never delete history tell
that say know never check phone
except once every while but i
swear allah ask God you never ever
history and every time you check phone
with the history deleted gives you red
flag i'm not say not accusing you guys i'm
tell you and sisters out of love there
may be
but i'm willing to benefit for this for
the sake of your so something to
understand and understand This will you know
pop quiz the teacher hates you he gives
you a pop quiz no pop quiz exam why so
you can always make studing right so you
always be happy you thank me for this your
parents foring on you as you geter and
hopefully you
from this is one the ways to know and i
have a friend of m how about telling you personal
story i was a very shy person
in high school very shy i wasul in high
school i can't talk to girls not because
of religious reasons only but because i
never got to because i was living in
saudi arabia then i moved here in high
school so there was this friend of m who
we spoke the same language same thoughts
of almost same country so said you know
let's hang out together because he is
the only friend around me that was
incorrect
thinking so then what he to do is that
he was a very handsome gu whenever he
used to go he would wh all the old
school st and actually girl come in the
mall then i what i'm doing is the
pressure pressure was high scho many
years ag me
beely understand me second langage
people make fun of me will be the home who
go to the mall with who h out with said let he does nots
the end i knew was intention his
intention was me to have a girlfriend to
me to and i'll tell you how all of a
sudden we go to short or timmy if you
wish to be like cool we go to timmy and
then he sits with me the same table buys
me some coffee then there were two girls
on the side but i never really paid
attention to these girls that guy stands
up talks to these two girls and
hees the store and they come and sit on
the same table as it was so it was free i
was took them table and saw the
girling with say he this alled girl
before way
loveable know they call me forg me guys
for me are you gay what wrong with you
two girls walking right
to and ands the s and so you know
why i got
you
know i for myes the
table man also that man was about making
me fall into imine i resp back said yes thank
you for coming and being sweet and
fl around then went hangs out with me and
could have had a child from her have no
idea what would be prepared and how seduced
we thank allah the who protected me from
this and at that point this person you
guys agree even give a second chance you
can't give a second chance he was about to make
you fall into z you can use a
support of aous friend to help him out
but you never go alone with him the
third category and last category in the
fourth segment is those are 5050 which
is the most people that i think they are around those people that are like youtube
what do you mean youtube when
you watch good videos what happens in
the recommendation list will give you
good good videos and if you watch bad
videos they will recommend to you bad filthy videos
so the friends i'm talking
about are those when doing something
lah
there club and from religious family
without mentioning names university of
and he said you know i really want to go to
the club with my friends i want to go
to the disc
dce what
are
tell said out love will tell preaching ones
beging me not tell
parents whatever the other friends
telling him come with us don't you drink won drink
you won drink you know how
about you drive When we go home you
drive so he said okay you know what i'll go
he so excited and the two friends i
see them laughing at him mocking him his back look
at this idiot look at
this person
50 many times go together and going cl
seeing so that person go the club and
behold he drinks gets drunk the friends
take pictes of him they on
face and that exposed
these people who that don't
negate get because i say that people
irritated give another chance i give another
chance i got one life you
sove i will come you i have friend us
to the other friend who was taking
pictes and made fun this person you can talk what
happens to you i told you i
listen to them et 5050 people ex
people
short andy to in the
party
guys another girl it can't
50
other wor
about and you know we can feel about
feel weird about wearing the
next thank you so now you
mefor see how ev can do see how that is
people watch out and now done in
conclusion use
opp this
video make life take to do the three
things that we mention the and theth one
the fourth thing the problem that we
mention is that many people are not
aware of the importance of friends
whether good or bad i hope during this
lecture wear this out number one have you have good friends thank
allah for them be thankful alhamdulillah
being a board member is
such a blessing being in the a blessing
being here a blessing blessing is be يا مآيق إني ق غفران ل number not peace be upon him
number
that you need to change to those ev friends b friends influence don't twittering faceing yoube will be
painful tell from experience from whatever propet said stats from musl musl will be painful you be backed you beed about people trash talk about you make fun of you all holy all and among conclusion and will ent which
is some
from
Allah
bey سبحانه وتعالى And Allah, Glory be to Him, recites two verses. So some of them turned to others
asking about the
attributes. One of them said, "Indeed, I had
a companion [in Allah's Cause]." Allah says, "Are you indeed among the believers? When we die and become dust and bones, we will surely be condemned." They
die and become dust and bones. When we die and become
dust and bones, we will surely be condemned.
He said, "Come on." I was so close
to accept invitation to club oh my god i was so close to take your adv and ac fall ands so close to accept the invitation and the request given to me we seek allah forgiveness from it we allah protection from it i was so close to attend this party i was so close to respond to requests when weing basketball my said the was so i was so cl and if it weren't for yes then I would have been out of the
meeting in tr been as
her may then you
know he says the beautiful
two things he appreciates
for about the beauty ofn about the palm
trees about the fruits about the food
the mansion sp and the vehicles and the angels and good friends he says two verses we
will never die again we will not death
and all that
know die except our first death
and what is between like him
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thing die again number
two this
bone not
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again
friends ask
andal to
ste from
those
Allah and the lam on and merciful to Allah and his