I always say that today A woman has been
reduced to basically an object of sex an
object of Attraction for a male and all
the males must just fill their eyes and
just their eyes must be quenched and
that's it so when you see the naked
women of the street you don't appreciate
your own wife you don't because you've
seen much better than her you've already
seen it so Allah says look oh man lower
your gaze as well it's no excuse even if
they're doing that lower your gaze so
you have a
woman and you you know you look down
with respect you speak to her it doesn't
mean you know there was a story of one
of the
Mas one of the scholars he mentions a
story that there was a man in the United
States he he was a religious preacher he
entered a lift young man and when he was
in the lift there the lift stopped at a
certain floor and the female entered it
she was semi nude and he looked down and
he did not look at her and she was
agitated irritated first time in her
life somebody's not looking and she's
stamping and she's doing you know trying
to make a noise making it and the two of
them are alone in the lift and he just
looks down he doesn't say a word he his
lift stopped she wanted to go higher
when he came out she came out behind him
this is a true
story she came out behind him and she
created a discussion hey you know what
I'm very offended am I so bad so dirty
so ugly that you couldn't even look now
she's being honest this is how the women
have been trained that you need to
attract Men at Large you need to attract
Men at Large so am I am I this that you
couldn't even look you couldn't even and
he says look my sister you know what I'm
a Muslim I respect you so much really
and I have a wife and I have this and I
have that and I am you know and I would
not I don't want to insult myself and
yourself by you know staring at you and
what am I going to gain by it and he
explained to her in a beautiful way and
she asked for his number now imagine if
someone asked you for their numbers
wow and respectfully the man agreed and
he felt that you know I will get the
people in touch with her and explain
after some time she accepted
Islam and she says Islam has liberated
me from being a person who who cannot
leave the home without half an hour in
front of the mirror without spending on
different types of designer clothing
without Islam has liberated me I just
put on a black cloak and I walk out
that's it I just put on a cloak and you
know it doesn't have to be black but the
dark colors are better because it makes
you less conspicuous imagine you have
the abayas which are pastel green and
pastel orange I don't think it would go
down well Subhan Allah